Life’s a Speech

A recounted experience as a Community Manager preparing for a visit from the Senior Vice President (SVP) of the company. After long hours of work, I faced exhaustion and a headache prior to the meeting. During their impromptu introduction, I shared information about my background, including my origins, military career, tenure at the company, and various roles held. Initially identifying my verbal pauses, I adapted by focusing on my topic and ultimately finding a smooth flow. I emphasize the importance of slowing down to gain clarity and confidence while communicating effectively.

Dear Believer, …

A cracked stone heart glowing with bright molten light between the fractures surrounded by smoke and embers.

The message expresses deep concern for a loved one’s spiritual state, emphasizing that true salvation involves continuous submission to Christ’s lordship. It warns against the subtlety of self-preservation that can lead one to honor Jesus with words while resisting Him in life. The call is for daily surrender and honesty before God.

No More Meetup.com

As of now, Wade Carter Consulting will no longer be operating on Meetup.com. All our programs will be run on our webpage instead. If you’re currently a member of one of my Meetup Groups and would like to continue gaining the value of Fearless Leadership or Spiritual Survival, please consider signing up here on the […]

How Fear Creates a Handicap in Your Life, Leadership, and Relationships

Fear acts as a restrictive handicap, hindering personal growth and limiting interactions. It creates an illusion of danger, leading to avoidance and emotional manipulation. This perspective transforms relationships, causing individuals to perceive others as tools rather than human beings. By rejecting fear’s influence, one can foster healthier connections and engage more authentically.

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Spiritual Survival: A Guide for New Believers

Spiritual Survival: How to Ignite the Fire of God, Transcend the Mountain of God and Walk on Water

The author reflects on the death of a proactive Christian leader while expressing newfound insights. They emphasize the transformative impact of their book, “Spiritual Survival,” written out of obedience, now seen as a vital resource for new believers. It aims to equip them for enduring faith amid challenges and encourage growth in their spiritual journeys.

Announcing Freedom-Driven Speech on Audible

Freedom-Driven Speech Audiobook

Master Sergeant Wade Carter’s audiobook, “Freedom-Driven Speech,” is now available, detailing his journey from fear-driven silence to empowering public speaking. It offers strategies to conquer fear, build confidence, and deliver impactful speeches. This resource aims to elevate leadership influence and encourage listeners to communicate boldly and effectively.

New Book Review from BookLife.com

Booklife.com review of Freedom-Driven Speech

Carter, founder of Premier Performance Training and Development, shares his journey from a fearful public speaker to an engaging presenter. Drawing on personal experiences and insights, he offers practical advice on effective public speaking, emphasizing mindset, authenticity, and audience engagement. His guide is beneficial for those looking to overcome their speaking fears.

RECIPE FOR WALKING IN VICTORY

DAILY RECIPE FDS Dojo Fearless, Spirit-filled Life

The guide outlines a daily spiritual practice for living a surrendered, spirit-filled, and fearless life. Key elements include establishing a prayer altar, engaging with the Word, and incorporating fasting and obedience. Emphasizing daily repentance and accountability, it encourages a transformative lifestyle rooted in genuine spiritual connection and proactive faith.

Why Freedom-Driven Speech Should Be in Every AAFES Store | Master Sergeant Carter’s Vision

Every airman hits a turning point. For Master Sergeant Carter, it was ALS—and fear almost won. Freedom-Driven Speech is the book he wishes he had then. Watch now to see why this message belongs in every AAFES store—and in every airman’s hands before they take charge. Master Sergeant Wade Carter (Ret.) shares his mission to get Freedom-Driven Speech into every AAFES […]

Are You One of the Many Held Back by the Fear of Public Speaking? Read This.

The author, a U.S. Air Force veteran, overcame a long-standing fear of public speaking and now empowers others to do the same through their book, “Freedom-Driven Speech.” This work emphasizes reclaiming power from fear and becoming authoritative in communication, urging readers to join a movement for confident leadership.

🎉 Celebrating 8 Years of Breakthrough at MyPremierTraining.com

Premier Performance Training and Development 8 Year Anniversary

Eight years ago, a vision emerged to empower individuals through faith-based public speaking, transforming anxiety into confidence. The FDS Dojo has since impacted thousands with a holistic ministry centered on speaking and spiritual growth. Our resources include over 88 blog posts and courses, alongside a comprehensive FDS Belt System promoting mastery in public speaking. Membership offers tiered training and personalized coaching. Upcoming initiatives include an audiobook and a launching White Belt course for beginners. We thank our community for the journey of empowerment and look forward to continuing this transformative work in the years ahead. Happy New Year from the FDS Dojo!

🎙️ Premier Performance Training & Development: Live Coaching Clip from the FDS Dojo

Nervous About Your TED Talk Watch This!

A Discussion on transforming nerves into momentum during TED Talks. It emphasizes the importance of preparation, with clear outlines and main points to maintain audience engagement. Misty shares her initial anxiety regarding her TED talk, where strategies focused on organizing content and using a keyword roadmap emerged instead of memorizing scripts. The advice offered includes acknowledging slip-ups gracefully, pacing speech, and using a metaphor of mapping versus GPS for effective delivery. A homework challenge encourages speakers to outline their introductions and main points. The FDS Dojo aims to instill confidence in public speaking, offering coaching options to eliminate fear and enhance performance.

😏 I asked AI to review my book 😳 🤯

Freedom-Driven Speech book by Wade Carter

“Freedom-Driven Speech” by Wade Carter confronts the debilitating influence of fear on communication and leadership. Carter, drawing from his military experience, emphasizes reclaiming one’s voice against fear’s control, offering practical strategies for impactful speaking. The book uniquely integrates truth without fluff, making it essential for anyone wishing to communicate authentically and powerfully.

The Power of Silence in Speech and Spirit

The content emphasizes the importance of strategic silence in communication and spirituality. It reveals that silence enhances authority and facilitates a deeper connection with God. Participants practiced using pauses effectively, highlighting that mastering silence allows for powerful presence. The challenge encouraged reflection on performance and the role of silence in effective messaging.

What’s Your Banana? Discovering the Blind Spots That Hold Back Your Leadership and CommunicationIn

The content discusses the metaphor of “What’s your banana?” derived from a scene in The Naked Gun, illustrating how individuals are often unaware of their own flaws. These flaws can hinder effective communication and leadership. Feedback is essential for identifying such issues, offering an opportunity for growth and improved connection with others. Embracing feedback helps everyone, as everyone has “bananas.”

“Walking in the Spirit: A Biblical Path to Daily Surrender and Power”

American man walking alone on a forest path, symbolizing spiritual clarity, daily surrender, and walking in the Spirit

Walking in the Spirit entails living daily under the influence of the Holy Ghost instead of yielding to fleshly impulses. Key aspects include focusing on God’s truth, submitting to the Spirit’s guidance, nurturing spiritual growth, producing the Spirit’s fruit, and rejecting sin. It emphasizes a lifestyle of obedience and reliance on God.

7 June 2025 Fearless Speakers Circle Recap

The content explores how emotional trauma influences one’s ability to communicate effectively. It emphasizes the importance of mindset transformation, clear thought, and emotional regulation in speaking. Key insights include maintaining boundaries, embracing silence, and using spiritual practices for inner strength. Permission to grow and express oneself is highlighted, encouraging continuous development and authentic communication.

[Video] 31 May 2025 Fearless Speakers Circle Recap

This week’s session emphasized that boldness is a spiritual attribute rather than a natural one, based on Proverbs 28:1. The discussion highlighted the distinction between the wicked, who flee due to fear, and the righteous, who stand firm through divine confidence. It was noted that self-deception is common, influencing parenting and leadership. Participants learned to embrace both encouragement and correction for growth. A “Don’t Be / Be” framework was introduced as a checklist for spiritual alignment. The importance of community feedback was illustrated through the “banana on your face” metaphor. The session concluded with prayer for boldness and personal growth.

[Video] 24 May 2025 Fearless Speakers Circle Recap

Fearless Speaker's Circle-Join and free your voice, leadership and lifestyle

This week’s session emphasized that boldness is a spiritual attribute rather than a natural one, based on Proverbs 28:1. The discussion highlighted the distinction between the wicked, who flee due to fear, and the righteous, who stand firm through divine confidence. It was noted that self-deception is common, influencing parenting and leadership. Participants learned to embrace both encouragement and correction for growth. A “Don’t Be / Be” framework was introduced as a checklist for spiritual alignment. The importance of community feedback was illustrated through the “banana on your face” metaphor. The session concluded with prayer for boldness and personal growth.

[Video] 17 May 2025 Fearless Speaker’s Circle Recap: “Your Voice vs. The Voice of Fear”

This week’s Fearless Speaker’s Circle was intimate, powerful, and a bold step toward freedom from fear in speech, leadership, and lifestyle. Master Sergeant Carter opened with a heartfelt introduction about the why behind the Dojo: a lifelong battle with fear, transformed into purpose through military service, public speaking, and spiritual revelation. Now, with two books (Fear Driven Speech and Spiritual Survival), he’s building a community devoted to courage, authenticity, and Christ-centered growth.

Website Update – We’re Growing—Thanks to You! 🙌

The review of MyPremierTraining.com reveals impressive growth, with over 3,386 views and 2,032 visitors. The blog has shared more than 13,000 transformative words, notably the popular post “Are You the CEO of LieToMyself.com?” on track for expansion. Engagement and sharing are vital to consolidating this purpose-driven communication movement.

Saturday 10 May 2025 – Meeting Recap: Fearless Speaker’s Circle

The Fearless Speaker’s Circle focused on empowering attendees to share their faith confidently despite fear. Key themes included the transformative power of the Gospel, the importance of preparation in effective communication, and recognizing fear as an external force. Participants were encouraged to deepen their understanding and prepare for impactful messaging.

Confronting Fear: Kick the Freeloader Out of Your Life

The piece personifies Fear as a freeloading housemate who impacts your life negatively. Fear saps your energy, influences your relationships, and convinces you that it’s an integral part of your existence. However, it’s within your power to evict this unwelcome guest and live freely without its presence. Despite the uncertainty of confronting fear, you must expel it for your own liberation. Adapting to life without fear might demand considerable adjustments. Nevertheless, span the focus on enjoying your freedom rather than dwelling in fear. The text encourages contacting an organization named FDS for guidance in overcoming fear.

🔥 Introducing Spiritual Survival: A Wake-Up Call for the Soul 🔥

How to Ignite the Fire of God, Transcend the Mountain of God and Walk on Water

“Spiritual Survival” addresses the moments when believers feel their spiritual fervor waning and question their walk with the Spirit. Born from personal wilderness experiences, the book serves as a candid guide for those recognizing distractions in their faith journey. It employs military-inspired survival metaphors to delineate spiritual principles and emphasizes the necessity of focusing on God while overcoming double-mindedness. Readers will find reflection questions, prayers, and actionable challenges alongside scripture that anchors the teachings. The author, Master Sergeant (Ret.) Wade Carter, encourages readers looking to enrich their spiritual lives to pursue intentional closeness with God through this guide.

Embracing Spiritual Survival: Why I’ve Been Quiet Lately

how to ignite the fire of God, transcend the mountain of God and walk on water

Master Sergeant Wade Carter shares insights on his writing a new book about Spiritual Survival, a deeply personal exploration of inner resilience, faith, and practical wisdom. This journey has involved addressing spiritual battles and nurturing strength during adversity, culminating in a new book aimed at inspiring others on their paths to renewal.

Top 10 Common Struggles Middle Managers Face as Influential Leaders

Often middle managers operate daily with a unique set of challenges. As they navigate their roles between senior leadership and frontline employees the challenges and their struggles collide.  What is a Middle Manager? A middle manager is a leader positioned between senior executives and frontline employees within an organization. They are responsible for translating high-level strategies into […]

Regain Confidence in Public Speaking: 10 Essential Tips

To regain confidence in public speaking, start by addressing smaller audiences in intimate settings. Join supportive groups like Toastmasters and practice consistently, including rehearsal techniques and revisiting past speeches. Focus on engaging content, choosing topics you are passionate about, and organizing your thoughts clearly. Familiarize yourself with technology, observe professional speakers, and seek constructive feedback after each session. Record your speeches for self-reflection and embrace imperfections, prioritizing connection over perfection. Engage in local speaking opportunities and manage nervousness through mindfulness practices. With gradual practice and time, you will improve and feel more comfortable in public speaking environments.

Make Your Child Confident Through Public Speaking

Childhood is a crucial development stage, laying the foundation for a person’s confidence, values, and abilities. A vital skill to nurture during this time is public speaking, which promotes self-expression and connection with others. Public speaking enhances self-confidence, critical thinking, and the organization of ideas. Parents can encourage this skill through activities like storytelling, research presentations, and role-playing. For more structured development, enrolling children in the FDS Dojo can provide essential training. Ultimately, effective communication fosters resilience and confidence in children, preparing them for future challenges. Start integrating public speaking into their growth journey today for lasting benefits.

Bring Master Sergeant Carter to Your Speaking Event!

Master Sergeant Carter is an engaging keynote speaker specializing in leadership, public speaking, and personal development. He offers customized, interactive sessions that motivate audiences and provide practical insights. Visit MyPremierTraining.com/speaking-engagements to book him for your event and access promotional resources to ensure its success.

Building readiness into your life

Are you a master of your life?  Consider effective interaction with your family and colleagues, excellent performance on the job and maintaining balance. Do you continually achieve the required focus, discipline, and ongoing self-reflection it takes for this mastery?  Here are some strategies to keep you aligned with your goals, engaged with those around you, and continuously improving: 1. Develop a […]

10 Simple Pieces of Advice For 3 Types of Speakers 

A comprehensive guide to improving public speaking skills across three levels: beginners, intermediates, and advanced speakers. It emphasizes the importance of practice, preparation, and audience connection while offering practical tips, such as using note cards and managing nervous energy. Continuous growth and feedback are vital for mastering speaking techniques.

Cherishing Your Wife: 7 Divine Truths Every Man Should Know

The significance of a wife as a divine gift, encouraging appreciation and reverence. It highlights her value as a blessing, partner, and source of joy, urging deep love reflective of God’s love. Recognizing her worth fosters gratitude and unity, enhancing both individuals’ spiritual journeys together.

Fear as Laziness: How Procrastination Disguises Itself as Fear

Fear often acts as a barrier, masking a deeper reluctance to engage in effort. Many perceive fear of failure when it often stems from unwillingness to face hard work. This tendency to avoid discomfort leads to inaction and missed opportunities. Recognizing fear as laziness enables individuals to push through and achieve growth.

Fear and the Devil: A Vicious Cycle Broken by the Power of God

Fear is a tool used by the devil to distract and control believers, causing doubt and powerlessness. It creates vulnerabilities that can lead to spiritual attacks. However, God’s authority and perfect love provide liberation from fear, ensuring believers can overcome its hold and live confidently in faith, free from the enemy’s influence.

Why Your Cell Phone Is Killing Your Personality

Excessive phone use can erode personality traits, such as emotional expression, presence, vocabulary, curiosity, confidence, and attention to others. We emphasize the importance of face-to-face interactions for personal growth and connection. The FDS Dojo offers structured support for enhancing communication skills and reclaiming authenticity in social engagement.

Happy New Year from the FDS Dojo!

As FDS Dojo enters 2025, it embarks on a journey to eradicate fear-driven communication and leadership. The initiative starts modestly with a small subscriber base but is set on making impactful strides. This year will focus on making real-life connections, building a strong membership community, and launching a podcast dedicated to insights on leadership, communication, and personal growth. The aim is to attract paying subscribers through offering valuable resources and training. The team expresses gratitude for early supporters and invites new members to join in shaping a vibrant community, emphasizing that every significant vision begins with small, determined steps.

Merry Christmas

As the year concludes, I express my heartfelt gratitude to my FDS Dojo Family, LinkedIn network, and blog subscribers for their invaluable support. May this holiday season provide joy and peace, allowing time with loved ones. Wishing everyone a successful and fulfilling new year ahead. Merry Christmas and happy holidays!

Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking With Master Sergeant Carter’s Strategy

Understanding Fear: Explore how fear affects the speaker and learn the psychology behind it.

What to Do About Fear: Proven techniques to manage and reduce anxiety before speaking.

Avoiding Fear-Driven Speech©: Learn how to prevent fear from hijacking your message.

Speaking with Confidence Every Time: Master the techniques to speak confidently in any setting.

Speaking in Your Power & Authority: Identify and harness your personal strengths to speak with authority.

The Power Grab©: A unique approach to taking control of the room and leaving a lasting impact.

Transitions – The Most Important Underestimated Piece of a Presentation: Understand why seamless transitions are key to a successful presentation.